By Atiq Raja
In a serene corner of a hospital, amidst the gentle hum of medical equipment and the quiet shuffle of footsteps, I experienced a profound lesson in gratitude. It wasn’t the clinical surroundings or the somber atmosphere that left an indelible mark on me, but rather an encounter with a patient whose story deeply altered my perspective on life’s everyday blessings. I met a man whose body had become a fortress of limitations that every movement dependent on the aid of others. His struggle to shift even slightly in his bed underscored the preciousness of mobility—a gift often overlooked in our daily lives. As I observed, I couldn’t help but contemplate the ease with which we move through our days, rarely pausing to acknowledge the marvel of walking, running, and dancing without hindrance. Beyond the confines of physical constraints, his intellect remained sharp and eager to engage, serving as a testament to the resilience of the human spirit.
Amidst a world frequently clouded by trivial concerns, his relentless pursuit of knowledge stood as a poignant reminder of our mental fortitude. Simple activities like eating, often taken for granted, assumed new significance as I pondered the joy of tasting and the communal act of sharing meals. His inability to swallow brought into sharp relief the intricate workings of our bodies—the ability to savor flavors and the communal ritual of dining. In a society where the pace of life often obscures these everyday wonders, this encounter served as a humbling wake-up call. It underscored the need to cherish and celebrate the mundane aspects of our existence—the ability to move freely, think deeply, and enjoy life’s simple pleasures. It is through such encounters that we are reminded of our shared humanity and the resilience that resides within each of us. Silence enveloped him, rendering him unable to speak, yet his presence spoke volumes about the gift of communication.
In a society where words flow freely, his quietude emphasized the profound value of speech and the organs that facilitate our connections. His struggle with sight and recognition illuminated the miracles of perception. We often overlook the vibrant colors of the world and the melodies of voices that fill our days, forgetting the privilege of seeing and hearing. Leaving the hospital, I carried not just memories but a newfound sense of gratitude. Each step, each word uttered, each bite savored felt like a blessing—a reminder to embrace daily gratitude. This encounter was a stark yet gentle nudge to appreciate life’s simplest functions as its greatest gifts. As we navigate our routines, let us pause to practice gratitude—to find solace and fulfillment in the blessings that surround us, often unnoticed. Life’s beauty lies not only in its grand moments but in the quiet acknowledgment of our everyday capabilities. Let us cherish these gifts, for they are the threads that weave the fabric of our existence.
(The writer is a rights activist and CEO of AR Trainings and Consultancy, with degrees in Political Science and English Literature, can be reached at news@metro-morning.com)
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Dear readers, Atiq Raja, a man I met in the United States for the proliferation of dialog with ‘soft skills’, should be taken seriously on such a subject as gratitude. In world on the precipice of a third world war, his understanding of gratitude must be taken seriously and applied to our individual and collective lives! Let’s try it, readers!